Last year I was looking for some fun ideas for play time with my then-partner. I knew that “kinky” advent calendars exist, but most of them have low value surprise toys. And as we all know choosing toys is a pretty personal thing. There has to be something better I thought and started looking all over reddit, and that’s when I stumbled on a thread with some ideas1. I created a list of 24 different spanking scenarios, and wrote them on small pieces of paper by hand. As always with anything related to BDSM it is important that this is consensual and you have agreed on a safeword, and that the person giving the spanks/hits will respect it. You should also at least consider aftercare, I know this is an unpopular opinion, but Doms or Tops may need aftercare too. If you are new to the whole impact play thing, it is a good idea to create a list of more than 24 scenarios and discuss it with your partner choosing those that both of you agree on. It will give you both some idea of what the other person is into, but also knowledge of their boundaries. Below you will find list of my scenarios with some additional ideas for mixing it up.
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